Vickie McCartyJan 192 minself-centered peopleTo a certain degree we are all a little self-centered. But there are others who are a LOT self-centered. You will always know when you...
Vickie McCartyJan 193 minoverly competitive peopleOverly-competitive people have to win. They HAVE to win. When they are in competitive mode they have little regard for others' feelings....
Vickie McCartyJan 173 minpeople with no boundariesA person with no limits or boundaries is exactly that, a person with no limits. They set no real limits on themselves, their spending,...
Vickie McCartyJan 152 minjealous peopleJealous people want what others have desperately, but have no belief in their ability to get it. They believe everyone is against them...
Vickie McCartyJan 142 mindisruptive personality behaviorPeople with Disruptive Personality Behavior seem to enjoy making life difficult for others -at least it appears that way. Disruptive...
Vickie McCartyJan 134 minam I a clingy/needy person?In 2010, I began my journey into Christian Counseling by studying Creation Therapy and Temperament Counseling. I never dreamed I would be...
Vickie McCartyFeb 22, 20191 minlife doesn't have to be complicatedI am determined. The first half of my life has whizzed by. Memories. Scars. Callouses. Age spots. And wrinkles… Have accompanied me thus...
Vickie McCartyFeb 22, 20195 minyou have one more optionOpportunity—a favorable time or occasion when we are in a position to make a decision that could forever impact our lives. Mark 5 A...
Vickie McCartyFeb 22, 20193 minhabitsThe word “habit” comes from a Latin word which means to “hold” or “live in”. A habit is some way of acting, which because of repetition...
Vickie McCartyFeb 22, 20193 minwarning signs. how can an affair happen?Once married always married? Should be. But unfortunately sneaky little things can come in and corrupt a good marriage. Our job is to...
Vickie McCartyFeb 22, 20192 minwho are you?It was Hippocrates, five centuries before Christ, who is thought to have turned the basic theory of temperament into a medical theory so...
Vickie McCartyFeb 22, 20192 mintemperament counselingWhat is Temperament? Temperament is the set of traits that makes you unique. Temperament explains why you interact the way you do with...
Vickie McCartyFeb 22, 20195 minwhat does trust look like?Lets first look at what it is not. Trust is NOT leaving church to go out and find a boyfriend or girlfriend and then dragging them to...
Vickie McCartyFeb 22, 20192 min20 habits of strong marriagesAbout half of all marriages in the United States end in divorce. Those statistics represent Christian marriages as well as others. It is...
Vickie McCartyFeb 22, 20193 mincan you say it is well with my soul?This famous hymn was written by a Chicago lawyer, Horatio G. Spafford after several traumatic events in his life. You might think to...
Vickie McCartyFeb 22, 20192 minparents-teenagers-conflictThe time between adulthood and childhood is full of changes – both physical and emotional. With hormones raging, teenagers often find it...
Vickie McCartyFeb 22, 20193 minanger: does the whole world need to knowStress. Disappointment. Disagreements. Heavy work schedule. Busy calendars. Plans that failed. Kids that won’t mind. A spouse that...
Vickie McCartyFeb 22, 20192 minvertical and horizontal relationshipsThe cross is both vertical and horizontal. Vertically, we connect to God. Horizontally, we connect with people. We must realize that our...
Vickie McCartyFeb 22, 20192 minfinding a Christian counselorMany many people have had to reach out for counseling at least once in their lifetime. Some, more than a few. It can be a scary thing to...
Vickie McCartyFeb 20, 20192 minspiritual advice- where do you go?Life can present us with challenges and decisions that are not easy to make on our own. But, God focused people pray about everything. In...