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Navigating Christmas
Christmas—"the most wonderful time of the year"—can feel like the most painful when you are a widow or are suffering through a loss. The festive lights and cheerful carols can feel like a stark contrast to the darkness and silence in your home and heart. An empty chair at the table, well-meaning "Merry Christmas," and even small familial traditions can sometimes amplify your loss. But it’s Ok. Grief is a testimony to the love you shared. The season, which is heavily focused

Vickie McCarty
5 days ago2 min read


Greater is HE who is in You
Life often presents us with situations that make us feel overwhelmed, outnumbered, and surrounded by challenges. It might be financial trouble, a health crisis, or the persistent negative voices of doubt and insecurity in our minds. In those moments, our natural eyes only see the vast "army" of our problems, much like the servant of the prophet Elisha, who panicked when he saw the city surrounded by enemy forces. But Elisha's response offers a profound shift in perspective: "

Vickie McCarty
5 days ago2 min read


More Screens More Portals
I was listening to a podcast today, and the guy mentioned something about screens, portals, and a movie director. Sometimes all it takes is a quick comment like that to send me down a rabbit trail — and this was definitely one of those times. Having raised 5 kids with now 10 grandchildren...I am quite concerned with the amount of time that kids (and people in general) are spending on screens, and more importantly than that, what they are watching. I think we all know by now t

Vickie McCarty
Nov 255 min read


time for your values
You’ve said it. I’ve said it. We’ve all said it, and we’ve said it more than once...”I don’t have time.” Yep, Guilty as charged. We are...

Vickie McCarty
Jul 3, 20223 min read


irreversible damage: Facts you need to know NOW!
"Abigail Shrier dares to tell the truth about a monstrous ideological fad that has already ruined countless children's lives. History...

Vickie McCarty
Jun 19, 20224 min read


self-centered people
To a certain degree we are all a little self-centered. But there are others who are a LOT self-centered. You will always know when you...

Vickie McCarty
Jan 19, 20222 min read


overly competitive people
Overly-competitive people have to win. They HAVE to win. When they are in competitive mode they have little regard for others' feelings....

Vickie McCarty
Jan 18, 20223 min read


people with no boundaries
A person with no limits or boundaries is exactly that, a person with no limits. They set no real limits on themselves, their spending,...

Vickie McCarty
Jan 17, 20223 min read


jealous people
Jealous people want what others have desperately, but have no belief in their ability to get it. They believe everyone is against them...

Vickie McCarty
Jan 15, 20222 min read


disruptive personality behavior
People with Disruptive Personality Behavior seem to enjoy making life difficult for others -at least it appears that way. Disruptive...

Vickie McCarty
Jan 14, 20222 min read


am I a clingy/needy person?
In 2010, I began my journey into Christian Counseling by studying Creation Therapy and Temperament Counseling. I never dreamed I would be...

Vickie McCarty
Jan 13, 20224 min read


life doesn't have to be complicated
I am determined. The first half of my life has whizzed by. Memories. Scars. Callouses. Age spots. And wrinkles… Have accompanied me thus...

Vickie McCarty
Feb 21, 20191 min read


you have one more option
Opportunity—a favorable time or occasion when we are in a position to make a decision that could forever impact our lives. Mark 5 A...

Vickie McCarty
Feb 21, 20195 min read


habits
The word “habit” comes from a Latin word which means to “hold” or “live in”. A habit is some way of acting, which because of repetition...

Vickie McCarty
Feb 21, 20193 min read


warning signs. how can an affair happen?
Once married always married? Should be. But unfortunately sneaky little things can come in and corrupt a good marriage. Our job is to...

Vickie McCarty
Feb 21, 20193 min read


who are you?
It was Hippocrates, five centuries before Christ, who is thought to have turned the basic theory of temperament into a medical theory so...

Vickie McCarty
Feb 21, 20192 min read


temperament counseling
What is Temperament? Temperament is the set of traits that makes you unique. Temperament explains why you interact the way you do with...

Vickie McCarty
Feb 21, 20192 min read


what does trust look like?
Lets first look at what it is not. Trust is NOT leaving church to go out and find a boyfriend or girlfriend and then dragging them to...

Vickie McCarty
Feb 21, 20195 min read


20 habits of strong marriages
About half of all marriages in the United States end in divorce. Those statistics represent Christian marriages as well as others. It is...

Vickie McCarty
Feb 21, 20192 min read


can you say it is well with my soul?
This famous hymn was written by a Chicago lawyer, Horatio G. Spafford after several traumatic events in his life. You might think to...

Vickie McCarty
Feb 21, 20193 min read
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